Perfect love is accepting the imperfection

Someone wrote this on my college yearbook; “… is a hopeless romantic. He sees through everything and composes verses in his mind. He talks about the great passions and immersed in them. He is a poet mincing words, evoking feelings, hiding himself…” A hopeless romantic? It was not because there was an object of beauty [...]

When I Was In Love With You

OH, when I was in love with you, Then I was clean and brave, And miles around the wonder grew How well did I behave. And now the fancy passes by, And nothing will remain, And miles around they ’ll say that I Am quite myself again. XVIII. Oh, when I was in love with [...]

Stay In or Leave Your Relationship?

If i guess correctly you’re in either one of two situations. One– you’re unhappy in your current relationship and you’re trying to decide whether to stay or go. Or two, you’ve already made the decision to leave and want to make sure you’re making the right decision. No matter which of these scenarios best describes [...]

? is Letting Go?

To “let go” does not mean to stop caring. It means I can’t do it for someone else. To “let go” is not to cut myself off. It’s the realization that I can’t control another. To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands. To “let go” is [...]

Breaking Up…

Sometimes the breakup can be the hardest part of the whole relationship. I know a lot of people who have simply stopped dating because they are gun shy after a particularly bad break. I think there are some things we do that can make it easier to accept and move on and some things that [...]