If I Were A Boy (Lyrics)

If  I Were A Boy

If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I’d roll out of bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted and go
Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I’d kick it with who I wanted
And I’d never get confronted for it
Cause they’d stick up for me

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I’d be a better man
I’d listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cause he’s taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone it’s broken
So they think that I was sleepin’ alone
I’d put myself first
And make the rules as I go
Cause I know that she’d be faithful
Waiting for me to come home (to come home)

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I’d be a better man
I’d listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cause he’s taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

It’s a little too late for you to come back
Say it’s just a mistake
Think I’d forgive you like that
If you thought I would wait for you
You thought wrong

But you’re just a boy
You don’t understand (Yeah, you don’t understand)
How it feels to love a girl
Someday you’ll wish you were a better man
You don’t listen to her
You don’t care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
Cause you’ve taken her for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
But you’re just a boy

Im not a big fan of Beyonce but I like this song.!This song puts me in neither a more positive, nor negative direction. It sounds nice, and the lyrics sound sincere. And to whoever said “You’re a girl, that’s what your parents wanted” needs to go back and read the lyrics another round… she’s speaking metaphorically. That as to some man in a past relationship, she would’ve made better choices and been more respectful. .Its not so much as an insult to guys. Its just the point that we all view things differently. But I agree that not all men are like this song. but the minority spoil it for the majority.

Birthday Thoughts For Ruby Rose!

Of all that makes you YOU.
Count a blessing for each candle
Have your cake and eat it too!

Unwrap this day and savor it
And all the love that’s there.
Send a dream-wish straight to
Heaven on the wings of prayer.

Remember what a blessing you are
Even after this day is gone.
You’re a gem, a priceless treasure
Let yourself shine on!

Your Birthday isn’t just a day
That comes and hurries by-
It’s a time to think of things
We’ve shared-
Together–you and I.

It’s a chance to say
You’re in my thoughts
Very often all year through,
It’s a time for me to say
How much I fondly think of you.

Greetings from,  ShAKERuLES

“The greatest good you can do for another, is not just to share your riches but to reveal to him his own.”

Stay In or Leave Your Relationship?

If i guess correctly you’re in either one of two situations.

One– you’re unhappy in your current relationship and you’re trying to decide whether to stay or go.

Or two, you’ve already made the decision to leave and want to make sure you’re making the right decision.

No matter which of these scenarios best describes your situation, you’re about to discover some of the most important questions you need to ask yourself in order to make the clearest, most empowered decision possible about whether to Stay or Go.

Because the truth is we weren’t always in a great relationship.

You see, we know what it’s like to be in a painful relationship. I’ve been in long term relationships that didn’t work out. We’ve both been faced with the decision about whether to stay in or leave a relationship. I know what it’s like to be in a relationship with someone you love and still feel cold and empty inside.

If you’re in a relationship that isn’t working and you’re not sure what to do, I’d like you to know that there is hope for a great relationship no matter how desperate your situation appears right now.

“Don’t Make The Same Mistake Most People Make When They’re in an Unhappy Relationship”… 

A lot of people ( and couples) think that if they don’t really focus on the issue of whether they want to stay in or leave their relationships–that the problems will magically somehow heal themselves.

They won’t.

If you don’t invest some quality time now in taking a true, honest and truthful look at the state of your relationship, you could stay stuck in this place of indecision for a very long time.

It’s amazing to us how many people are content to stay stuck in this place of indecision about their relationship wasting so much precious time when they could be experiencing an incredible relationship filled with love, passion and joy.

You need to decide that you’re not willing to live without the love, passion, intimacy, tenderness, connection and yes, even sex any longer.

You have to take the first step to create the kind of relationship and love you want in your life.I’am not suggesting that you should leave your current relationship or marriage and head out looking for the new love of your life. Only you can make that decision.

What I’am telling you is that life is too short to go through it without having the love you want in your life that’s possible for all of us.

It’s important that you take some time now to gain the clarity about your relationship so that you’ll be able to ask yourself openly and honestly whether you’ll be able to heal your current relationship or not.

You deserve to have love, passion and connection in your life. But, in order for your life and your situation to get better, you have some big decisions to make about your relationship…

Ask Yourself “Should I Stay or Should I Go?”…

Loving someone who does not love you back

It’s a wretched, miserable existence when you’re in love with someone who doesn’t love you back. Whether their eyes glaze over when they see you, or you’re “just a friend”, it sucks. It can do serious damage to self esteem. You find yourself wishing, trying, and thinking (maybe even obsessively. It’s ok, I won’t tell) and you can very well reach a point of despair.What I’ve noticed would happen in a situation like this is sometimes you may find yourself trying to alter yourself to the person’s pleasing. Or worse – what you THINK that person likes. Sometimes desperation makes you do things that you wouldn’t do otherwise. I just wanted to put this out there for the eager eyes that read this.

That person’s – or anyone’s – opinion of you for that matter does not define you or your value. You are not any less smart, sexy, clever, talented, anything. Thinking in this way only aggravates the effects you feel from rejection. It’s a quick launch to a negative space that will certainly affect all aspects of your life. I’m not saying don’t be sad. But know who you are.

You know exactly what I’m talking about. Doing things you don’t want to do, that you wouldn’t do, that devalues or humiliates you to appease a soul. It’s not going to make them love you anymore and some unsavory characters would gladly lead such a circus at the expense of their conscience at old age (stay with me here) for the attention and care from such a wonderful person such as yourself. Who doesn’t love some TLC? Don’t compromise yourself. I’m going to say it again. DON’T compromise yourself. What a really meant is Don’t Cheapen Yourself.

It’s ok to hurt. To feel pain, to feel sad. But it’s not ok to refuse that person’s rejection, obsess, and bring yourself to new degrees of low. The bad news is the object of your affection doesn’t share those same feelings with you. But don’t count yourself out yet. There is someone who can appreciate you and return your adoration, like you deserve somewhere out there. I say deserve with conviction because I know – its so easy to take even small common courtesies as signs of someone warming up to you because you want that love so badly. But, my friend, that’s a baseline. Common courtesy… is common. Or at least it ought to be. It’s not love. You must accept the reality that he/she doenst love you anymore.

You will find that I’ll say this often because when I’m seeking that advice, I hear it so very often and I agree with it. We are so very good at beating ourselves up for what we deem our shortcomings. How about some of that adoration for that person… for yourself. You have the right to feel good you know, as you work on breaking that cycle and refocusing yourself and your sights on something or someone else. Loving someone who doesn’t love you back hurts like hell. So for your own sake, think about implementing these things that I’ve mentioned. Easier said than done, trust me – I know. But when you’re ready to be done with the whole misery aspect of it all, it will deliver a very necessary breakthrough. Always be good to yourself and remember that life goes on.

If you are sad, who comes to your mind first?

Ask yourself this question and answer it honestly :

“When you are happy, which person would you want to share your happiness with?” The one you think of is someone you love.

Ask yourself another question and answer it honestly :

“When you are sad, which person you want to share your burden with?” The one you think of is also someone you love.

If you think of the same person when you are happy & sad, that’s the most perfect. But if you don’t think of the same person, I would advise you to chose the one you are willing to share your sadness with.

In life, there are more sorrows than happiness. There are too many people that you meet that you can share your happiness with, not necessary your lover.

If you live your life happily, you can also enjoy it alone.

In sadness, however, there are not many people willing to share your burden with you. If you are willing to tell someone your happiness, I am sure that person has got to be someone close & an understanding person to you.

But it shouldn’t stop there. If that person only thinks of you when he is happy, but looks for someone else when he is sad, this person is too unstable, he doesn’t treat you as someone he can spend the rest of his life with.

Of course, I will be very happy if I am the first person to share your happiness. But, if your sad, I will be too willing to stay by your side & ease your pain. Only then, will I believe that I hold a very important position in your heart.

Again…

If you are sad, who comes to your mind first? (”,)

Love Letter

1—-”The great love that I have for you
2—- is gone, and I find my dislike for you
3—- grows every day. When I see you,
4—- I do not even like your face;
5—- the one thing that I want to do is to
6—- look at other girls. I never wanted to
7—- marry you. Our last conversation
8—- was very boring and has not
9—- made me look forward to seeing you again.
10— You think only of yourself.
11— If we were married, I know that I would find
12— life very difficult, and I would have no
13— pleasure in living with you. I have a heart
14— to give, but it is not something that
15— I want to give to you. No one is more
16— foolish and selfish than you, and you are not
17— able to care for me and help me.
18— I sincerely want you to understand that
19— I speak the truth. You will do me a favor
20—if you think this is the end. Do not try
21— to answer this. Your letters are full of
22— things that do not interest me. You have no
23— true love for me. Good-bye! Believe me,
24— I do not care for you. Please do not think that
25— I am still your boyfriend.”

Before giving this letter to your gf  please tell her to “READ BETWEEN THE LINES”, meaning-only to read 1.3.5.7.9.11.13.15.17.19.21.23.25. (Odd Numbers)

? is Letting Go?

To “let go” does not mean to stop caring. It means I can’t do it for someone else.

To “let go” is not to cut myself off. It’s the realization that I can’t control another.

To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands.

To “let go” is not to try to change or blame another. It’s to make the most of myself.

To “let go” is not to care for, but to care about.

To “let go” is not to fix, but to be supportive.

To “let go” is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being.

To “let go” is not to be in the middle, arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own destinies.

To “let go” is not to deny, but to accept.

To “let go” is not to nag, scold, or argue, but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To “let go” is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

To “let go” is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future.

To “let go” is to fear less and to love more….