When I Was In Love With You

OH, when I was in love with you, Then I was clean and brave, And miles around the wonder grew How well did I behave. And now the fancy passes by, And nothing will remain, And miles around they ’ll say that I Am quite myself again. XVIII. Oh, when I was in love with [...]

Stay In or Leave Your Relationship?

If i guess correctly you’re in either one of two situations. One– you’re unhappy in your current relationship and you’re trying to decide whether to stay or go. Or two, you’ve already made the decision to leave and want to make sure you’re making the right decision. No matter which of these scenarios best describes [...]

? is Letting Go?

To “let go” does not mean to stop caring. It means I can’t do it for someone else. To “let go” is not to cut myself off. It’s the realization that I can’t control another. To “let go” is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands. To “let go” is [...]

Breaking Up…

Sometimes the breakup can be the hardest part of the whole relationship. I know a lot of people who have simply stopped dating because they are gun shy after a particularly bad break. I think there are some things we do that can make it easier to accept and move on and some things that [...]

My being 31

How true the saying that age is just a number, it is still a number. Not to everybody but to some people at least. For me, yeah, it is just a number, and yeah, it is also a big deal sometimes, especially during my “hormonally imbalanced” days. Hehehe. Whatever that means… My 31st year had [...]

Let go

Imagine this. In your hand is a very precious creation, so fragile, so valuable that if you keep on holding, it would either stay or fall apart. But you loved this creature so much, so much that letting it go would be like letting go of your life as well. So much that sometimes you [...]